• Featured Feasts:

    • Aug 22: Queenship of the Blessed Virgin Mary
    • Aug 23: St. Rose of Lima
    • Aug 27: St. Monica
    • Aug 28: St. Augustine

    Herbal Focus:

     Rose + Lavender + Mint Infusion — A fragrant, uplifting blend honoring Mary as Queen and St. Rose of Lima’s mystical life. Sip in the quiet to calm anxiety, clear the mind, and uplift the heart.

    Queen of Heaven Herbal Infusion

    Inspired by Mary, Queen of Heaven & St. Rose of Lima

    Ingredients (makes 1 quart):

    • 1 Tbsp dried rose petals (culinary-grade, organic)
    • 1 tsp dried lavender buds (culinary-grade)
    • 1 Tbsp dried peppermint leaves
    • Optional: 1–2 tsp local raw honey or a slice of lemon for brightness

    Instructions:

    1. Boil 4 cups (1 quart) of water.
    2. Place herbs in a teapot, heat-proof jar, or French press.
    3. Pour boiling water over the herbs.
    4. Cover and steep 10–15 minutes for a gentle floral-minty flavor (or up to 30 minutes for stronger benefits).
    5. Strain, sweeten if desired, and enjoy warm or iced.

    Health Benefits:

    • Rose: Calms the heart, soothes stress, gently supports skin and hormones
    • Lavender: Promotes relaxation, lifts mood, eases digestion and headaches
    • Peppermint: Refreshing, aids digestion, energizing but soothing

    Devotional Reflection:

    As you sip, reflect on the virtues of Our Lady—purity, peace, obedience, and queenship—and the humility and hidden strength of St. Rose of Lima, who offered her beauty and comforts in loving sacrifice to Christ. May this cup be a prayer.

    “With the fragrance of your virtues, O Mary, draw our hearts to God.” 


    Monday (Feast: Queenship of Mary)

    Tuesday

    Wednesday (Optional Fasting)

    Thursday

    Friday (No Meat)

    Saturday

    Sunday (Lord’s Day Feast)

    From my Grace Filled Lemons heart to yours,

    Laura

    *P.S. A gentle reminder: if your health or energy doesn’t allow for a full meal plan right now, please don’t feel bad about that. Healing and nourishment look different for everyone. Maybe just pick one recipe to try—or simply enjoy the inspiration. And if even that feels like too much this week, that’s okay too. Let grace carry you, not guilt. You’re doing the best you can, and that is more than enough.

    *P.P.S. I am not a nutritionist. Any recipes provided are based solely on what I choose to do for my own family and sharing them is purely for you to use as you desire. Also, if you have dietary restrictions, a lot of the recipes I share can be altered or found with a quick Google search. Do what you need to do for your best health!

  • You folded the laundry again.
    You packed the lunch, answered the email, picked up the groceries.
    You sat with the friend, made the bed, paid the bill, kissed the child’s forehead at bedtime.
    You prayed quietly in the car on your way to work, even though no one heard it but Heaven.

    And maybe it didn’t feel like ministry.
    Maybe it didn’t feel like much of anything.
    But it mattered.

    Because in God’s Kingdom, small things are never small when done in love.

    Jesus taught us this when He multiplied the loaves.
    He didn’t start with abundance—He started with just five barley loaves and two fish. Someone’s small offering. Someone’s “this is all I have.”
    And He turned it into more than enough.

    That’s what He does with our lives, too.

    We offer Him our tired hands. Our ordinary days. Our unseen faithfulness.
    And He blesses it, breaks it, multiplies it, and feeds the world with it—often in ways we’ll never see on this side of Heaven.

    Holiness doesn’t always shout.
    Sometimes it whispers through the hum of a dishwasher.
    Sometimes it breathes through the quiet work of caregiving, the showing up, the choosing to love again when it’s hard.
    Sometimes it looks like choosing patience with your spouse, or saying a kind word when you feel like retreating.

    You’re not just “doing tasks.”
    You’re tending sacred ground.
    You are, in every quiet act of love, building the Kingdom of God.

    A Prayer for the Weary Faithful:

    Jesus, remind me that You see it all.
    The socks I’ve folded. The words I’ve spoken. The prayers I’ve whispered.
    Teach me to find You in the ordinary.
    And help me to trust that even when it feels small, my love is building something eternal.
    Amen.

    Journaling Prompts:

    • What “small” part of my life have I overlooked as holy?
    • Where have I seen God meet me in the middle of routine or repetition?
    • What would it look like to offer the small tasks of my day to God as prayer?
    • Who in my life is impacted by my quiet faithfulness—whether they see it or not?

    You don’t need to change the world to be a Kingdom Builder.
    You just need to love faithfully where you are.

    With you in the small things,
    Laura

  • The day comes sooner than you think. You’ve packed the bins, folded the laundry for the last time in their childhood bedroom, and made sure they have enough socks to last until Christmas break (or so you hope). Then, suddenly, the door closes behind you and your child is stepping into the next chapter of life — college, a first job, or moving into their own apartment.

    It’s a strange mix of joy and ache. We’ve prayed for them to grow into strong, faithful, compassionate adults. And now they’re doing it — but it means letting go.

    1. Entrusting Them to God’s Care

    We have to remember — they were His before they were ours. The same God who guided them through scraped knees and high school finals will guide them now.

    Two saints especially come to mind:

    St. Thomas Aquinas – Patron of students and scholars. Known for his great intellect and deep humility, he reminds us that wisdom is a gift from God.

    St. Joseph of Cupertino – Patron of exams and academic success (and, amusingly, of those who struggle with studies). His life shows that persistence and trust in God matter more than perfect grades.

    Prayer for a Student Leaving Home
    Lord Jesus, You are the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Watch over my child as they step into this new season. Protect their heart from fear, guide their mind in learning, and surround them with holy friendships. May St. Thomas Aquinas inspire them to love truth, and St. Joseph of Cupertino encourage them in times of challenge. And give me, Lord, the peace to trust You with the child You have entrusted to me. Amen.

    1. Practical Tips for the Transition (For Moms)

    Give them room — but stay connected.

    Your role shifts from daily guidance to trusted advisor. Text and call, but let them initiate sometimes. They need to learn independence while knowing you’re still their safe place.

    Keep a routine for yourself.

    It’s easy to let your schedule revolve around their absence — but establishing your own morning prayer, hobbies, and social life helps you stay grounded.

    Pray for them daily, intentionally.

    You might choose a decade of the Rosary for them each day, light a candle when you pray, or keep their name on a small prayer card by your bedside.

    Rediscover your marriage and home life.

    This is a natural time to deepen your marriage, take up a new ministry, or pursue a long-delayed passion project.

    Allow yourself to grieve.

    Even good changes can hurt. Let yourself cry when the house feels too quiet, but also thank God for the beauty of this moment — it means you’ve done your job well.

    1. Creating a Send-Off Tradition

    One of the best ways to make peace with this transition is to create a family ritual:

    Share a blessing at the door before they leave.

    Give them a small sacramental like a rosary, saint medal, or prayer card.

    Make their favorite meal the night before departure.

    This creates a bridge between their childhood home and the new life they’re building.

    1. A Mother’s Heart in God’s Hands

    Motherhood is a series of holy goodbyes — from the first time they toddled away to the first time they drive off alone. Each goodbye is really a sending forth. We give them back to the Lord, trusting that His love for them is greater than ours could ever be.

    So, take a deep breath, Mama. Pray. Smile. Hug them one more time. And then step into your own next chapter with grace.

    Here’s a gentle, heart-centered essential oil blend for emotional support — created especially for moms who are feeling the bittersweet ache of dropping their kids off at college or out into the world. This blend is designed to ease anxious thoughts, comfort the heart, and help ground you in peace, trust, and hope.

    💗
    “Letting Go with Love” Emotional Support Blend

    For Diffuser (100–200 mL water):

    3 drops Bergamot 🍊 (uplifts heavy hearts, relieves anxious tension)

    2 drops Lavender 🌸 (calming, soothing, comforting)

    2 drops Frankincense 🌿 (grounds the soul, encourages spiritual surrender)

    1 drop Rose or Palmarosa 🌹 (heart-opening, supports emotional healing)

    1 drop Cedarwood Atlas 🌲 (strengthens, centers, helps release fear)

    💧 For a 10 mL Roller Bottle (Diluted to ~5% for emotional support):

    Fill with carrier oil and add:

    3 drops Bergamot

    3 drops Lavender

    2 drops Frankincense

    2 drops Palmarosa (or 1 drop Rose if available)

    2 drops Cedarwood

    🌿 Optional Substitutions:
    Geranium or Clary Sage can sub for Palmarosa or Rose

    Roman Chamomile adds a nurturing, mothering energy

    Fragonia (if you have it) is also beautiful for transitions and emotional alignment

    ✨ How to Use:
    Diffuser: Use during prayer, journaling, or quiet moments after saying goodbye.

    Roller: Apply over heart, wrists, and back of neck as needed.

    Inhaler: Create a personal aromatherapy stick to carry in your purse or car.

    From My Grace Filled Lemons heart to yours,

    Laura

  • Featured Feasts:

    • Aug 15: Solemnity of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary
    • Aug 20: St. Bernard of Clairvaux
    • Aug 21: Pope St. Pius X

    Herbal Focus:

    Serenity in Grace Herbal Tea Blend

    Featuring Linden Blossom & Chamomile


    🌿 Ingredients (makes approx. 10 Tbsp dry blend)

    • 6 Tbsp dried chamomile flowers
    • 4 Tbsp dried linden (tilia) blossoms
    • 1 Tbsp dried lemon balm (optional, for bright citrus notes)
    • ½ Tbsp dried lavender buds (optional, for added calming aroma)

    Feel free to omit the optional herbs if you prefer a simpler two-herb blend.


    🍵 Preparation

    1. Combine all dried herbs in a clean bowl; mix gently until uniform.
    2. Store in an airtight glass jar, away from light and heat.
    3. To Brew (per 8 oz cup):
      • Place 1 tsp of the blend in a tea infuser or teapot.
      • Pour 200 mL just-off-boil water (≈95 °C/203 °F) over the herbs.
      • Steep 5–7 minutes, covered.
      • Strain into a teacup.
    4. Optional Sweetener: Drizzle with honey or a slice of lemon to taste.

    🌼 Benefits

    HerbKey Actions
    Chamomile• Calming for mind & body• Aids gentle sleep• Soothes digestive discomfort
    Linden Blossom• Relieves tension & mild anxiety• Supports healthy blood pressure• Antispasmodic for headaches & muscle tension
    Lemon Balm• Uplifting, eases nervousness• Supports cognitive focus
    Lavender• Deepens relaxation• Eases restlessness

    Synergy: Together, chamomile and linden blossom create a deeply soothing infusion that both calms the spirit and comforts the body—perfect for reflection, evening prayer, or a peaceful pause in your day.


    🙏 Spiritual Reflection (optional)

    Before sipping, you might pray:

    “Lord, as I drink this tea, grant me serenity of heart and quiet of mind, that I may rest in Your peace.”

    Linden Blossom + Chamomile Tea — A calming, heart-soothing blend perfect for Marian feasts and contemplative evenings. Use especially on the 15th to honor Our Lady’s gentle surrender.


    Monday (Feast: Assumption of Mary – Celebrate!)

    Tuesday

    Wednesday (Optional Fasting)

    • Breakfast: Herbal tea or broth
    • Lunch: Spelt toast with avocado and lemon
    • Dinner: Simple miso soup and rice
    • Intention: Fast for humility and inner peace

    Thursday

    Friday (No Meat)

    Saturday

    Sunday (Lord’s Day Feast)

    From my Grace Filled Lemons heart to yours,

    Laura

    *P.S. A gentle reminder: if your health or energy doesn’t allow for a full meal plan right now, please don’t feel bad about that. Healing and nourishment look different for everyone. Maybe just pick one recipe to try—or simply enjoy the inspiration. And if even that feels like too much this week, that’s okay too. Let grace carry you, not guilt. You’re doing the best you can, and that is more than enough.

  • Kingdom Builders Series Part 1

    Woman praying with a bible. Original public domain image from Wikimedia Commons

    Not all of us are called to be missionaries in distant lands.
    Not all of us will wear habits or take vows or speak on grand stages.

    Some of us are called to hospital rooms.
    To grocery aisles and office desks.
    To laundry piles and long commutes and raising small children in homes full of noise and grace.

    Some of us are called to love God in the ordinary—
    And that calling is no less holy.


    Building God’s kingdom doesn’t always look like “doing more.”
    Sometimes, it looks like showing up—again and again—with love.
    It looks like doing your work with integrity when no one is watching.
    It looks like choosing gentleness in a harsh world.
    It looks like blessing your children as they sleep, forgiving before you’re ready, or saying a prayer for a coworker under your breath.

    Sometimes the kingdom is built not with grand gestures but with small, faithful bricks of quiet obedience.

    Jesus didn’t spend most of His life preaching to crowds. He spent thirty years living a quiet, ordinary life—working with His hands, honoring His parents, walking the dusty roads of Nazareth.
    If He was willing to live in the hiddenness of daily life, why do we think our holiness must look different?


    The kingdom of God grows in kitchens, in conversations, in early mornings and tired evenings.
    It grows when we choose love over fear.
    When we choose truth over comfort.
    When we make room at our tables and in our hearts for people who need to be seen.

    You don’t have to be in ministry to be doing ministry.
    You don’t have to be “doing big things for God” to be faithful.

    You just have to be willing to say yes to Him right where you are.


    A Quiet Reflection:

    Lord, teach me to see my ordinary life as sacred.
    Open my eyes to the hidden ways You are working through my hands, my words, my work.
    Help me to build Your kingdom, one small yes at a time.
    Remind me that nothing done in love is wasted—even when no one sees but You.
    Amen.


    Journaling Prompts:

    • What areas of my life feel “too small” to be meaningful? How might God see them differently?
    • How can I bring the love of Christ into my home, workplace, or community this week?
    • What small “yes” is God inviting me to today?
    • Have I underestimated the impact of my presence, encouragement, or prayers in someone else’s life?

    Let this be your sacred pause.
    Because right here, right now, your life is building something eternal.

    With you in the quiet faithfulness,
    Laura

  • Featured Saints:

    • Aug 8: St. Dominic
    • Aug 11: St. Clare of Assisi
    • Aug 14: St. Maximilian Kolbe

    Herbal Focus:

    Holy Basil + Rose Petal Tea — Supports emotional balance, clarity of thought, and heart-centered devotion. A lovely nod to St. Clare’s contemplative spirit and St. Maximilian’s deep peace under pressure.

    Holy Basil & Rose Petal Tea

    Ingredients:

    • 1 tablespoon dried holy basil (Tulsi)
    • 1 tablespoon dried rose petals (organic, food-grade)
    • 2 cups freshly boiled water
    • Optional: a slice of orange, a few crushed cardamom pods, or a drizzle of raw honey

    Instructions:

    1. Combine holy basil and rose petals in a teapot or heat-safe jar.
    2. Pour 2 cups of freshly boiled water over the herbs.
    3. Cover and steep for 10–15 minutes for a light floral brew, or up to 30 minutes for a deeper infusion.
    4. Strain into your favorite mug.
    5. Add honey, orange, or cardamom if desired.

    Benefits:

    •  Holy Basil (Tulsi) is revered in Ayurvedic medicine as an adaptogen—supporting the body’s stress response, improving clarity, and promoting emotional balance.
    •  Rose Petals are known to soothe the heart, ease tension, and gently support hormone and digestive health. Spiritually, roses have long been associated with Our Lady and divine love.

    Monday

    Tuesday

    Wednesday (Optional Fasting)

    • Breakfast: Herbal tea or fruit only
    • Lunch: Spelt toast with tomato and basil
    • Dinner: Clear broth soup with greens and barley
    • Intention: Fast for purity and deeper union with Christ

    Thursday

    Friday (No Meat)

    Saturday

    Sunday (Feast Day Prep for the Assumption)

    With gratitude,

    Laura

    *P.S. A gentle reminder: if your health or energy doesn’t allow for a full meal plan right now, please don’t feel bad about that. Healing and nourishment look different for everyone. Maybe just pick one recipe to try—or simply enjoy the inspiration. And if even that feels like too much this week, that’s okay too. Let grace carry you, not guilt. You’re doing the best you can, and that is more than enough. 

  • The Briar Rose Series – Study for ‘The Garden Court’ (1889) painting in high resolution by Sir Edward Burne Jones. Original from The Birmingham Museum.

    There was a time I didn’t trust God with my illnesses.

    I prayed, and nothing got better. I read Scripture, but my body still burned with pain, trembled with fatigue, collapsed under symptoms no one could explain. I thought maybe I was being punished. Or forgotten. Or simply too complicated for healing. And I was angry.

    Not just the quiet kind of angry.

    The guttural, heart-deep ache of “Why would You let this happen to me?”

    I looked around at people running, thriving, eating whatever they wanted, raising babies with ease, living full lives in bodies that didn’t betray them.

    And I didn’t just feel left out.

    I felt left behind.

    But something changed.

    Not all at once. There was no lightning bolt or miracle cure.

    There was surrender. One slow drop of grace at a time.

    One whispered “help me trust You” in the middle of the night.

    One desperate moment where I realized:

    I didn’t need to understand His plan to be held inside it.


    Chronic Illness + Trust: What Changed

    I stopped believing my body had to be perfect to be used by God.

    I stopped measuring His goodness by how “better” I felt.

    I started asking a different question:

    Instead of Why me?

    I asked Where are You in this?

    And the answer was always the same:

    Right here. Still with you. Always Jesus.

    I started noticing how His mercy met me on the hard days — through unexpected kindness, a burst of energy just when I needed it, a soft word from someone who understood.

    I stopped needing healing to prove His love.

    And I started seeing my body — fragile, complex, often exhausted — as the sacred place where He still dwells.


    Wholiopathic Insight: Chronic Illness + Nervous System Care

    Living with chronic illness means our nervous system is constantly under pressure. Pain, fatigue, overstimulation, trauma — they keep us stuck in survival mode.

    But here’s the truth:

    God did not design your nervous system to suffer endlessly.

    He designed it to return to safety.

    And even when it can’t return in the ways we wish — through full health, or energy, or stamina — He is the safety we seek.

    Some practices that have helped me:

    • Daily grounding with prayer — even just 2 minutes with a rosary in my palm
    • Gentle nourishment — warm teas, broths, simple spelt bread, magnesium-rich foods
    • Saying “no” without guilt and protecting my energy like a sacred resource
    • Letting myself grieve when a flare derails my plans
    • Letting myself hope that joy can still meet me in a limited body

    Journaling Prompts for the Weary Body + Hopeful Heart

    1. What lies have I believed about my body and God’s love?
    2. What truth do I need to hear today?
    3. When did I last feel the peace of His presence in my suffering?
    4. What might it look like to stop striving and simply be held?

     A Prayer for Surrender in Chronic Illness

    Jesus, You know what it means to suffer.

    You lived in a body that felt pain. You wept. You bled. You surrendered.

    And so I bring You my own ache — the questions, the exhaustion, the confusion.

    Not because I need instant healing… but because I need You.

    Be near to me in this body. Be near in the flare, the fatigue, the fear.

    Help me surrender to what is — and trust You with what will be.

    Let grace fill even this.

    Amen.


    Until next time,

    May you be gentle with your body, tender with your grief, and open to the quiet ways He is loving you back to life.

    Your suffering is not wasted.

    Your healing is already underway.

    Held by grace. Healed by mercy. Always Jesus.

    From my Grace Filled Lemons heart to yours.

    Laura

  • A long wooden pier on a smooth lake. Original public domain image from Wikimedia Commons

    You weren’t designed to live in a state of constant panic.

    You weren’t made to survive on adrenaline and shallow breaths.

    Your body was never meant to hold the whole world together.

    God created your nervous system with sacred intent.

    It isn’t separate from your spiritual life — it’s woven into it.


    Made for Peace, Not Panic

    “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you.

    I do not give to you as the world gives.

    Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”

    (John 14:27)

    From the beginning, God built you with rhythms of rest:

    • Breath that slows.
    • Muscles that release.
    • Hormones that calm.
    • A parasympathetic system (“rest and restore”) that activates safety and trust.

    Even the Sabbath was a nervous system gift — a divine pause.

    Not just for your spirit, but for your body.


    Wholiopathic Insight: What Happens in the Nervous System

    Your nervous system has two main branches:

    1. Sympathetic (Fight, Flight, Freeze)

    • Mobilizes you for danger or stress
    • Raises cortisol, increases heart rate
    • Designed for short bursts, not chronic states

    2. Parasympathetic (Rest, Digest, Repair)

    • Lowers stress hormones
    • Supports digestion, sleep, healing
    • Activated through safety, stillness, and connection

    Here’s the good news:

    You can learn to gently retrain your nervous system to return to God’s design — to rest, receive, and heal.


    Holy Habits to Support the Nervous System

    These practices are both physical and spiritual. They’re acts of worship — trust in motion.

    1. Breath Prayer

    Inhale: Jesus, I receive Your peace.

    Exhale: I release what I cannot carry.

    Do this for 2 minutes to signal safety to your nervous system.

    2. Sacred Stillness

    Sit in silence with a candle lit. No agenda. Just presence.

    Let God love you here.

    3. Herbal Nervous System Support

    • Lemon balm – calms without sedating
    • Holy basil – balances cortisol and emotions
    • Oatstraw – nourishes the nervous system
    • Steep as a tea or use in tinctures. You can even combine all three.

    4. Safe Touch + Anointing

    Apply a roller blend over your chest or neck while praying:

    Sacred Heart of Jesus, be my peace.

    Blend idea:

    • 6 drops lavender
    • 4 drops frankincense
    • 2 drops bergamot
    • Fill 10 ml roller with carrier oil

    A Prayer for Sacred Stillness

    Jesus, Divine Healer,

    Quiet my heart where it races.

    Soothe my body where it tightens.

    Teach me how to live not from fear,

    But from trust in You.

    Let my nervous system return to peace —

    A peace the world cannot give, and cannot take away.

    Amen.


    Final Reflection

    Your nervous system is not broken — it’s protective.

    But it needs a daily reminder of what’s true:

    You are safe. You are seen. You are not alone.

    Jesus is the still place.

    The breath between storms.

    The peace that holds you when your body forgets.


    Journaling Prompts: Rest, Safety, and the Presence of God

    1. When was the last time I truly felt safe in my body or soul? What helped me feel that way?
    2. In what areas of my life am I living from fear instead of trust?
    3. What might God be inviting me to lay down so I can rest?
    4. How do I tend to react when stress rises — and how can I return to stillness with Jesus?
    5. What does the Sacred Heart of Jesus want to say to my nervous system today?

    Optional practice:

    Take one of your answers and write a letter to Jesus from that place — anxious, tender, or exhausted. Then write a letter from Him back to you.


    May your breath slow, your heart soften, and your soul rest in the stillness of His love.

  • Theme: Liturgical Living, Simplicity, and Sacred Nourishment

    Weekly overview with saint feast days, meals, intentions, and herbal recipes


     WEEK 1: August 1–7

    Featured Saints:

    • Aug 1: St. Alphonsus Liguori
    • Aug 6: Feast of the Transfiguration

    Herbal Focus:

    Nettle + Lemon Balm Infusion — A calming, nourishing blend to support detox and clarity

    Ingredients:

    1 tablespoon dried nettle leaf

    1 tablespoon dried lemon balm leaf

    2 cups freshly boiled water

    Optional: a slice of fresh lemon or a drizzle of raw honey

    Instructions:

    Place the dried herbs in a heat-safe jar, teapot, or French press.

    Pour 2 cups of freshly boiled water over the herbs.

    Cover and steep for 15–30 minutes for a gentle infusion, or up to 4 hours (or overnight) for a stronger, mineral-rich brew.

    Strain and enjoy warm, or refrigerate and drink over ice.

    Add a slice of lemon or raw honey if desired.

    Benefits:

    Nettle is rich in vitamins and minerals (especially iron and magnesium), supports energy, and may help reduce inflammation.

    Lemon Balm is calming, uplifting, and supportive for the nervous system, digestion, and mood.


    Monday

    Tuesday

    Wednesday (Optional Fasting)

    • Breakfast: Herbal tea or plain oatmeal
    • Lunch: Brothy barley soup with peas
    • Dinner: Mixed greens with a soft-boiled egg
    • Intention: Reparation for personal sin

    Thursday

    Friday (No Meat)

    Saturday

    Sunday (Feast Day)

    To Your Health,

    Laura

    *P.S. A gentle reminder: if your health or energy doesn’t allow for a full meal plan right now, please don’t feel bad about that. Healing and nourishment look different for everyone. Maybe just pick one recipe to try—or simply enjoy the inspiration. And if even that feels like too much this week, that’s okay too. Let grace carry you, not guilt. You’re doing the best you can, and that is more than enough. 

  • In a world where we often eat on the go, skip meals, binge out of boredom, or grab whatever’s fastest, it can be easy to forget that food is not just fuel—it’s a gift. As Catholics, we believe our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. What we put into them matters—not just for our physical well-being, but for our spiritual lives, too.

    That’s why I created the Grace Filled Lemons Catholic Meal Planner: a simple, beautiful, and intentional way to unite faith and food around the family table.

    Why What We Eat Matters

    From the first pages of Scripture, food has been sacred. God gave Adam and Eve a garden. Jesus shared meals with sinners and saints alike. And at the heart of our faith is a meal—the Eucharist, the Bread of Life.

    But somewhere along the way, food in our culture became a source of stress, shame, or even sin. We eat too much or too little, not out of reverence or celebration, but out of habit or distraction. Gluttony—a sin often brushed off as harmless—can dull our spiritual senses, just as much as pride or greed.

    To eat with intention is to remember that food is a form of grace. It sustains us so we can serve. It connects us to the earth, to each other, and to our Creator.

    The Virtue of Temperance (Yes, Even in the Kitchen)

    One of the cardinal virtues, temperance, calls us to moderation—not just in drinking or spending, but in eating. When we embrace temperance, we honor our limits. We eat to nourish, not to numb. We celebrate without overindulging. We choose foods that bless our bodies, rather than burden them.

    This isn’t about guilt or rigid rules. It’s about living with purpose—even at the table.

    Whole Foods, Holy Living

    My meal plans focus on whole, healing foods—the kind that come from God’s creation, not a factory. Think fresh fruits and vegetables, clean proteins, hearty grains, and herbs that not only flavor our meals but offer healing in every cup of tea.

    The benefits of eating this way are not just physical (though increased energy, fewer flare-ups, and a calmer gut are all welcome side effects!). When we eat foods that are close to their natural state, we begin to slow down. To notice. To give thanks. It becomes a form of everyday holiness.

    What the Church Teaches About Fasting & Abstinence

    Catholicism offers a beautiful rhythm of feasting and fasting, reminding us that food is meant to point us back to God.

     Fasting

    Catholics are asked to fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday, eating just one full meal and two smaller meals that together don’t equal the full one. Fasting helps us detach from worldly pleasures and turn our hearts toward prayer, penance, and solidarity with the poor.

    Fasting isn’t about punishing the body—it’s about training our desires. It reminds us that “man does not live by bread alone.” (Matthew 4:4)

     Abstinence from Meat

    Catholics abstain from meat on Fridays during Lent, and many choose to do so every Friday of the year as a form of penance and remembrance of Christ’s sacrifice on Good Friday.

    Why meat? In biblical times, meat was associated with wealth and feasting. Giving it up, even temporarily, becomes a small but meaningful act of self-denial.

    Why fish? It was considered a more humble food—accessible, simple, and not associated with celebration in the same way red meat was. Eating fish helps us maintain the spirit of penance while still caring for our bodies.

    Including these traditions in your meal planning invites your whole family into the liturgical life of the Church—and makes Friday fish tacos or salmon with herbs a sacred kind of supper.

    The Forgotten Fast: Wednesdays and Fridays

    While most Catholics are familiar with fasting and abstinence on Fridays, fewer know about the ancient tradition of fasting on Wednesdays as well.

    In the early Church, Christians fasted on Wednesdays and Fridays as a regular spiritual practice.

    • Wednesday was seen as the day Judas conspired to betray Jesus.
    • Friday was the day of the Crucifixion.

    By fasting on these two days, early believers honored Christ’s Passion and offered their bodies as a form of prayer and penance.

    While it’s no longer required by the Church, many Catholics and Orthodox Christians still choose to voluntarily fast on Wednesdays—whether by skipping a meal, eating simply, or abstaining from meat—as a way to stay anchored in the story of our salvation.

    It’s not about legalism. It’s about love, remembrance, and a desire to grow in holiness.

    When you plan your meals around this rhythm, food becomes more than sustenance. It becomes an offering.

    Liturgical Living Made Easy

    Each month, my Catholic Meal Plan includes:

    • Feast Day Inspirations: Recipes tied to saints and seasons
    • Whole-Food Recipes: Nourishing meals that are simple, healing, and family-friendly
    • Herbal & Aromatherapy Pairings: Because God gave us plants with purpose
    • Weekly Themes: That align with your spiritual walk and the liturgical calendar

    This isn’t just about what’s on your plate—it’s about cultivating a lifestyle of grace, presence, and prayer.

    Join Me at the Table

    Whether you’re managing chronic illness, caring for your family, or just longing for a more mindful way to nourish yourself, this plan is for you. It’s not a diet. It’s not a burden. It’s a gentle guide toward greater wholeness—body and soul. Every Friday, for the remainder of the year, I’ll post the next weeks meal plan.

    So light a candle. Say grace. Pour a cup of herbal tea. And let’s rediscover the sacred rhythm of mealtime—one week, one saint, one bite at a time.

    Joyfully His,

    Laura

    **Disclaimer:

    I am not a medical professional, licensed dietitian, or nutritionist. I’m just a girl who loves good food, natural living, and sharing what’s helped me on my own wellness and faith journey. Everything I share here is for educational and inspirational purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider before making any major changes to your diet, especially if you have chronic health conditions.

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